One of the true miracles in life is to experience equilibrium between masculinity and femininity. It is one of the best hidden secrets in life that almost no one experience. I can tell you what it is, but you have to know it from the inside and experience this for your self to really understand and recognize it in your life. It shouldn’t be a secret. Life would be completely different if it wasn’t. But luckily evolution has lead us to a point where it is possible to experience this. Evolution is at it’s midlife crisis and this is the point where balance is regained!
We all grow up as either introvert or extrovert persons, which basically is unbalanced. Evolution ‘grew up’ as an extrovert individual and has reached it’s turning point going towards introversion. We are all given this opportunity in midlife! This means that we get a chance to become whole beings. A person who is either introvert or extrovert is only a half being, not living his or her full potential. Which automatically leads to problems around midlife. Identity crisis or existential crisis. 4 out of 5 marriages with one or both spouses in midlife crisis does not make it! Which is bad odds for evolution! The secret in gaining balance between masculinity (extrovert, activity, thinking, etc.) and feminity (introvert, being, feeling, etc.) is:
In the exact balance between these opposites the Heart and the Mind will open!
And keeping this balance will open the Heart as well as the Mind to deeper levels of existence. And I mean REALLY open! No defences! No excuses! No explanations! Total accept of what is! This is called Healing by the way!